Dallas

A Message From Kim

Simplifying the Holidays
No doubt you are beginning to make plans for the holidays and you may be thinking about how to cut back your spending with an eye on current economic conditions. It may be the perfect opportunity to simplify. My favorite gifts are always those which are homemade and carry with them the time and thoughtfulness of the gift-giver.

Some school policies do not allow individual gifts for teachers unless they are homemade, thus, an opportunity to get creative and make something special for their teachers.  One idea is to take your charges to the dollar store so that they can spend their own money and buy something on their own for their siblings. We've included several ideas in our craft section for homemade gifts that you can help your charge create.

Most adults could not name specific gifts they received as readily as they could recall special memories, family rituals or traditions that were meaningful. Make a list of fun holiday events that you would like to do in the month of December. Rides through Dallas in horse drawn carriages are available.  A tour of the Christmas lights in the area is always fun.  Traditional caroling is a favorite.

Don’t forget that we, at Mom’s Best Friend, have “holiday elf” opportunities available if you enjoy helping with gift wrapping, shopping, party planning /serving/cooking, individual family childcare for parties or special events on-site childcare. If you are available to work special days like New Year’s Eve, don’t forget to let your temp placement counselor know so that you can earn some extra money to pay for those Christmas gifts!

Happy holidays from all of us at MBF,
Kim Winblood, Owner

Mom's Best Friend will be closed for the holidays on the following dates:

• November 27-28, 2008
• December 24-26, 2008
• December 31, 2008 after 12pm through January 1, 2009

December Playdate:
Friday, December 12, 10:30 am.
The Wiggly Play Center
4944 Preston Rd., Suite 100
Frisco, TX
$7.45 per child. Adults Free.
If we have a group consisting of 10 - admission is $2 less.
Bring socks and money for lunch. We will be eating lunch in the Wiggles Cafe! What is the Wiggly Play Center? Bounce houses, climbing structures, and a toddler area. This place is a lot of fun and a great way to burn off some energy!

January Playdate
Friday, January 16th at 10:30am
Old Town Lewisville Playtown at The Vista Ridge Mall
2401 S. Stemmons Freeway, Lewisville TX
Bring socks, money for lunch in the mall's food court, and a few dollars cash if you wish to ride the kiddie rides. We will be meeting at the Old Town Playtown on the Lower Level between JC Penney and Dillards. We will play first, break for some lunch and then ride some kiddie rides located near the food court!

Get Organized by Recalibrating Your “Enough” Meter!

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity.... It turns problems into gifts, failures into success, the unexpected into perfect timing, and mistakes into important events. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.” - Melodie Beattie, author of Choices and The Language of Letting Go

When we are grateful we are more in touch with what “Enough” means. I mean Enough with a capital “E”… the sense of being abundant, satisfied, happy, peaceful, and content in all areas of your life. Enough means you know when to stop buying, eating, doing, and accumulating.

Did you know that Americans can choose from over 25,000 supermarket items, 200 kinds of cereal and 11,092 magazines? And you should see the array of salsa choices if you live in Texas! Even at times when we perceive our economy as down, we have an almost embarrassing abundance of riches. We have 24-hour stores and when we buy something we are urged to “supersize” and “collect all four.” We have on average much larger homes than ever before, but one out of eleven of us still rents a self-storage unit to hold our overflow of stuff.

Given this abundance, having a clear sense of Enough is crucial to getting control of both physical and mental clutter in your life. Sometimes I have worked with people whose “Enough meter” clearly needs to be recalibrated. They have too many toys for their children, too many clothes (many unworn with the tags still on them), too much food in the pantry, too many cosmetics, more books and magazines than could possibly ever be read, scattered unfinished projects of various kinds, rented storage units, too many activities and responsibilities, and a collection of other unused belongings that continues to accumulate despite the excess. Many times people with a faulty “Enough meter” have a body weight problem as well.

Gratitude is the first step to a cure… and is one of the best ways to recalibrate your “Enough meter.” Oprah and so many others have encouraged us to keep a Gratitude Journal, and for good reason. It really works! Writing down what you are grateful for each day (most experts suggest five things) is a way to focus your mind on what you have and get your mind off what you don’t have.

A spirit of gratitude will help you as you consider additional purchases for your home. On our website we have free Clutter Prevention Wallet Reminder Sleeves that you can use to hold your credit cards and remind you of the five important questions you should ask before purchasing something ( www.clutterdiet.com/wallet). One of those questions is “WHY do I want to buy this?” If you’re buying something to fill the empty space or to feel better, or if you are actually out of touch with why, that is a signal that you may not be clear on what Enough means to you.

In our Clutter Diet program we talk about how getting organized is very much like losing weight, and in just the same way that you should push your plate away when you’re full, you can stop acquiring “stuff” and prevent clutter from getting in the door. Remember…you do Enough, you have Enough, and you are Enough. Happy Thanksgiving.

Lorie Marrero, www.clutterdiet.com

Q: Do you have any great ideas for presents for my employers?   
A: Every year, I hear this question from many nannies, so I am happy to answer this question! Instead of taking your charges to the mall to buy something for their parents, have them make something!

One thing you can do is have the kids paint pottery for their parents. Who doesn’t like a fruit bowl that has been painted by a three-year-old?! Painting a platter with all the children’s hand prints is a great way to capture time, and hand painted ornaments will be enjoyed for years to come. Don’t forget to also have the children make their own cards for parents and grandparents.

So what about a gift to your employers from you? Somehow, it doesn’t seem right to buy your boss cologne or a sweater, and truth be told, they don’t want you to. You can never go wrong with something that is sincere and homemade. One of my favorite things to give my employers is aphoto album with pictures of their children that I have taken over the course of the year (see the idea in the craft section of the newsletter). What a great way to chronicle the past year (and showcase all the fun the children have had with you). Your employers will appreciate the thoughtfulness of your gift and love having pictures of the kids.

Another gift you can give that will be appreciated greatly is your time and patience. This time of year, things pop up unexpectedly for your employer like last-minute parties or houseguests. Being flexible with your time when things come up, doing things above your normal work arrangement like helping wrap presents, helping out more around the house, or running extra errands will reflect well on you and help your employers keep their sanity. Sometimes it can be a little frustrating having extra family in the home. Children tend to act up a little more and having extra guests can sometimes be overwhelming. Remember that family members have nothing but the best of intentions by trying to help you. Having extra people in the house is hard for your employers also. Being gracious, flexible, and helpful will make the time go by smoother and keep everyone in the jolly spirit.

Remember not to let yourself get caught up in the frenzy of the season. Take time to enjoy the holidays with your charges. Make hot chocolate; read T’was the night before Christmas (again!), and write letters to Santa. It’s a wonderful time of the year, so enjoy it!

Thanks!
Cecelia Zapalac, Austin Nanny Network Organizer

Mom's Best Friend Sets up Shop in Colorado
November 5, 2008
Mom’s Best Friend, an Austin-based household staffing and nanny service, is opening up a Colorado office in its first move outside of Texas. Read the full Austin Business Journal article.
November 5, 2008

Press Release: Mom's Best Friend Expands to Vail / Beaver Creek, Colorado Area
Mom’s Best Friend, Texas' largest and most established sitter service and nanny agency, announces that they are opening a franchise office in Vail/Beaver Creek on November 5, 2008. This will be the first Colorado office for Mom’s Best Friend, who currently has existing Austin, Dallas/Fort Worth, Houston, and San Antonio Texas locations.
November 4, 2008

These 3 fun crafts have been pulled from familyfun.com:

Brag Brooches
Materials:

• Bottle Cap
• Needle-nose pliers
• Pin backing (available at craft stores)
  
• Photo
  
• White glue or clear glaze (available at craft stores)

Instructions:

1. To make your pin, use needle-nose pliers to bend out and flatten the rim of a bottle cap.
2. Then children can glue a pin backing to the cap.
3. Let them decorate the inside edge of the cap (idea! nail polish and glued on glitter works great).
4. Then they can trace a quarter around a photo of their choice and cut it out.
5. The next step is to glue the picture in the center of the bottle cap and coat it with clear glaze or white glue that dries clear.

• Oven mitt or pot holder
• Pencil and paper
• Colored fabric markers

Instructions:

1. Trace the oven mitt or pot holder onto a sheet of paper and experiment with different designs.
2. Next, resketch the perfected design on the mitt and color it in with the fabric markers.

Family Photo Books
Materials:

• Assorted photos
• Craft knife
• 4-ply and 2-ply rag board (sold at art supply stores)
• 26-inch-long piece of ribbon
• Colored paper
• Glue stick

Instructions:

1. Choose seven favorites from a stack of family photos.
2. Use a craft knife to cut two 5- by 6 1/2-inch rectangles from the 4-ply rag board for the book covers. For the inner pages, cut one 5- by 39-inch rectangle from the 2-ply rag board. Lightly mark 6 1/2-inch increments along the long edges of the 2-ply rag board, and accordion-fold the sheet at those marks Use a ruler edge to press the folds into sharp creases.
3. Lay the ribbon on a tabletop and center the folded rag board on top so that the side with three creases is on the left and lines up with the midpoint of the ribbon Apply glue to the top of the folded rag board. Then lay the left side of the ribbon over the glued page and top with one of the book covers, pressing firmly until well stuck. Flip over the book and use the same method to attach the right side of the ribbon and the back cover.
4. Now, cut the colored paper into seven 4- by 5 1/2-inch rectangles. Glue one onto the center of each page and the front cover. Then glue the photos onto the colored paper. Finally, print the year on the front cover.

MBF always has wonderful job opportunities! 

Position 17049
Single dad is needing a VERY flexible nanny to care for his two children (5 and 2-year-old girls). He is a neurosurgeon and so his schedule is sporadic. One of his daughters does have speech and developmental delays. Ideal candidate will be personable, engage in age appropriate activities, light housekeeping, be able to transport to various activities and again, BE FLEXIBLE with his operating schedule. Can guarantee 40-hours/week (sometimes less but paid for 40 hours and sometimes will need the nanny more). M-F 8a-2p will almost always need to be covered; schedule will change OFTEN. $12-$15 an hour.

Position 17866
Sweet family looking for care for their adorable 4 month old boy! For the first couple of months, the position will be more part-time--3 days a week from 11a-5p. Once the mom has transitioned back to work, the job will become full-time Monday through Friday from around 11a-6p with some flexibility. Duties will include taking walks, baby exercises and developmental skills, some light housekeeping, and normal infant care. They are looking for someone who is gentle, positive, and organized. $12-$20 an hour.

Position 18016
Fort Worth family is needing a nanny for their precious 17-month-old son! Both parents work and their son is in school two days/week and will need to be picked up. Nanny will need to feed breakfast, engage in age appropriate activities, put down for naps, feed dinner as needed. Ideal candidate will be energetic and fun-loving! Family envision the nanny talking child to the park, zoo and working on language and reading skills. Can guarantee 30 hours/week. MW 8:30a-4:30p, TR 12p-6:30p. $12-$14 an hour.

Position 14393
This is a wonderful family located south of Dallas. They live in Corsicana and their son goes to school in Dallas. The nanny would need to pick-up son from school at 3pm and then take to get a snack and then transport home (about a 1-hour drive from Dallas). There may be some weeks where they will actually need 20 hours but most of the time the nanny will just be paid for 20 hours/week even though she is working less hours. This family will also provide gas reimbursement. M-F 3p-5p-7p. $11-$14 an hour.

Don’t forget to check out the job board for a comprehensive list of all of the current opportunities we have available! Please let us know if you know anyone who might be interested in any of these positions, as we are always offering referral bonuses.

MBF is a lifesaver for families with “no family” in the area. Many, many thanks for all that you do!! --Kim Neil, Sitter Service Client

I was really pleased with MBF! I really appreciated how quickly you always got back to me. I just wanted to let you know that you guys are wonderful and I have recommended the agency to a lot of people. Thank you for everything!
--Kristen Lambert, Nanny

Mom's Best Friend worked hard to meet my needs in a time crunch. The customer service was high quality - this is a rarity nowadays. Every staff member was friendly, professional and knowledgeable. --Patsy Snider, Nanny Client

Mom's Best Friend GIves Families Another Charity to Choose From!

Children's Miracle Network is the alliance of premier children's hospitals. Every year, Children's Miracle Network hospitals treat 17 million children for every disease and injury imaginable. Children's Miracle Network hospitals impact the lives of more children than any other children's organization in the world. Children's hospitals provide state-of-the-art care, life-saving research and preventative education for children 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. There is a Children's Miracle Network hospital dedicated to serving children in every community across the United States and Canada. These hospitals are committed to providing the best care for children when they need it. We are thrilled to be able to give back to this wonderful charity program.