{"id":4991,"date":"2025-10-08T20:45:35","date_gmt":"2025-10-08T20:45:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/?p=4991"},"modified":"2025-10-22T16:46:58","modified_gmt":"2025-10-22T16:46:58","slug":"what-can-and-cant-my-nanny-do-for-my-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/2025\/10\/08\/what-can-and-cant-my-nanny-do-for-my-family\/","title":{"rendered":"What Can (and Can\u2019t) My Nanny Do for My Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A common question I get asked in my consultations is what exactly a nanny\u2019s job can include. Does it have to be limited to childcare or can they help with meals or housework? The short answer is that every family\u2019s arrangement will look a little different, but there are clear industry guidelines that I often find myself explaining. The guidelines below will help set your expectations early and avoid misunderstandings later.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What a Nanny Can Do<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At its core, a nanny\u2019s role is centered on the children. Their number one responsibility is to provide attentive, nurturing care that keeps children safe, happy, and engaged. That includes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Preparing healthy meals and snacks for children<\/li>\n<li>Managing daily routines like naps, school schedules, and playtime<\/li>\n<li>Homework support<\/li>\n<li>Driving children to\/from school, activities, or appointments<\/li>\n<li>Keeping children\u2019s bedrooms, play areas, and belongings tidy<\/li>\n<li>MBF nannies go above and beyond by introducing creative activities and supporting developmental milestones<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Household Tasks Connected to the Children<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While childcare is always the priority, most nannies take on certain household tasks that directly support the children, but do not overshadow their main role as a caregiver. These may include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Doing children\u2019s laundry<\/li>\n<li>Washing bottles, dishes, or meal prep items used by the children<\/li>\n<li>Cleaning up any areas used by the children (wiping down high chair, sweeping up\/ vacuuming messes from meals or crafts, wiping down counters, picking up toys, etc.)<\/li>\n<li>Organizing toys, books, and school supplies<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>What a Nanny Typically Does Not Do<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes families try to make nannies a hybrid of childcare, housekeepers, and cooks, which can lead to frustration on both sides. Tasks that are usually outside of a nanny\u2019s role include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Housekeeper duties such as household dishes, family laundry, sweeping\/vacuuming, and of course any deep cleaning (scrubbing bathrooms, mopping, etc.).<\/li>\n<li>Planning and cooking meals for parents<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Nanny Manager\/Family Assistant<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In a Nanny Manager or Family Assistant (children in school) role, some personal assistant-type duties and light housekeeping can be incorporated:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Errands such as grocery shopping, errands, returns<\/li>\n<li>Meal prep for parents to cook a meal such as washing, chopping, thawing, preheating, measuring, etc.<\/li>\n<li>Managing the family\u2019s calendar and\/or booking appointments<\/li>\n<li>Organizational projects<\/li>\n<li>Liaising with vendors and contractors<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>Note: Occasionally a family will require the nanny to prepare (and sometimes even plan) family meals, but often we see this limits the interested candidates significantly.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>How to Set Expectations<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The best way to ensure a smooth working relationship is to clarify expectations from the beginning. Here are a few simple steps to ensure that both the nanny and parents feel respected and supported:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ensure that the job description outlines all duties and responsibilities<\/li>\n<li>Discuss responsibilities during the interview<\/li>\n<li>Confirm the duties in the Employment Agreement (we will draft for you)<\/li>\n<li>Schedule regular check-ins to talk about how things are going and adjust the Employment Agreement if your needs evolve and your nanny agrees to the new duties<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you are starting to think through what kind of support your family needs, we can help. Whether you want to begin a search for the right nanny or just ask questions about what makes sense for your household, our team is here as a resource. <a href=\"https:\/\/calendly.com\/jessica-sjolseth\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-link-type=\"web\">Reach out today<\/a> to start the conversation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A common question I get asked in my consultations is what exactly a nanny\u2019s job can include. Does it have to be limited to childcare or can they help with meals or housework? The short answer is that every family\u2019s arrangement will look a little different, but there are clear industry guidelines that I often [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5372,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[58,59,33,53,109,40,222,69,49,191,117],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4991","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-family-assistant","category-family-manager","category-hiring-a-nanny","category-nannies-and-household-management","category-nanny-boundaries","category-nanny-duties","category-nanny-employment-agreements","category-nanny-housekeeper","category-nanny-industry","category-nanny-personal-assistant","category-personal-assistant"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4991","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4991"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4991\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5372"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4991"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4991"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.momsbestfriend.com\/austin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4991"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}